How Being Thankful Can Transform Your Life

How Being Thankful Can Transform Your Life

Author: Negin M. Khorasani

Enjoy the little things. For one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. – Robert Brault

In a world filled with stress and challenges, gratitude stands as a beacon of positivity. It’s a simple yet profoundly transformative practice that can enhance our lives in remarkable ways. But what does science have to say about gratitude, and how can it influence our minds and bodies? In this article, we will delve into the fascinating world of gratitude, exploring the research and uncovering the profound effects it has on our well-being.

The Neuroscience of Gratitude:

The brain is a complex organ, and gratitude appears to have a special place in its circuitry. Studies using neuroimaging have shown that when individuals experience gratitude, several key brain regions light up, including the prefrontal cortex. This part of the brain is associated with decision-making, emotional regulation, and complex thinking. Essentially, gratitude activates the very areas responsible for rational thought and emotional balance.

Additionally, the brain’s reward center, the ventral tegmental area (VTA), is activated when we feel gratitude. This is the same area that lights up when we experience pleasure from food or other enjoyable activities. 

The brain’s reward system operates through a series of interconnected neural pathways. When an individual experiences something rewarding, such as eating a delicious meal or receiving praise, the reward system is activated. Dopamine is released from the VTA and travels to the nucleus accumbens, where it binds to receptors, creating feelings of pleasure and reinforcing the behavior that led to the reward.

The fact that with feeling of gratitude the VTA is activated, and dopamine is released suggests that our brains reward us for being thankful, reinforcing the practice of gratitude as a pleasurable one. 

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter, which is a chemical messenger that plays a vital role in various functions of the brain and body. It is often referred to as the “feel-good” neurotransmitter because it contributes to feelings of pleasure, reward, motivation, and reinforcement. Dopamine is involved in a wide range of physiological and psychological processes, including: 

  1. Reward and Pleasure: Dopamine is closely associated with the brain’s reward system. When you engage in activities that are pleasurable or rewarding, such as eating a delicious meal or receiving praise, dopamine is released, creating a sense of pleasure, and reinforcing the behavior.
  2. Motivation: Dopamine is a key player in motivation and goal-directed behavior. It helps drive individuals to pursue and work toward rewards or goals. A deficiency in dopamine can lead to decreased motivation and difficulty in experiencing pleasure.
  3. Movement Control: In the brain’s motor circuits, dopamine plays a critical role in regulating voluntary movements. A lack of dopamine in specific areas of the brain is responsible for the motor symptoms of conditions like Parkinson’s disease.
  4. Mood Regulation: Dopamine is involved in mood regulation, and imbalances in dopamine levels are associated with mood disorders such as depression and bipolar disorder. Certain medications that affect dopamine are used to treat these conditions.
  5. Cognition: Dopamine is also implicated in cognitive functions, including memory, attention, and problem-solving. It helps facilitate communication between different regions of the brain.
  6. Addiction: Many addictive substances and behaviors, such as drugs, alcohol, and gambling, stimulate the release of dopamine. Repeated exposure to these stimuli can lead to changes in the brain’s reward system, contributing to addiction.
  7. Learning: Dopamine plays a crucial role in reinforcement learning. It helps the brain associate specific behaviors with their outcomes, allowing individuals to learn from their experiences and make decisions based on past rewards and punishments.

Dopamine operates within a complex neural network, and its release and effects are tightly regulated. Abnormalities in dopamine function have been implicated in various neurological and psychiatric disorders. For example, too little dopamine is associated with Parkinson’s disease and depression, while excessive dopamine activity is linked to conditions like schizophrenia and addiction.

Emotional Well-Being:

Gratitude is closely linked to emotional well-being. Numerous studies have shown that people who regularly practice gratitude report higher levels of happiness and reduced symptoms of depression and anxiety. When we acknowledge the things, we’re thankful for, we naturally focus on the positive aspects of our lives, leading to increased feelings of joy and contentment.

Gratitude also fosters resilience. It can help individuals navigate challenging times by shifting their perspective and allowing them to see opportunities for growth and learning within adversity.

Physical Health Benefits:

The benefits of gratitude extend beyond our mental and emotional well-being. Grateful individuals tend to experience improved physical health as well. They often report:

  • Improved Heart Health: Expressing gratitude and having a positive outlook on life has been associated with lower blood pressure and reduced risk of heart disease. Grateful individuals may experience lower levels of stress and inflammation, which can contribute to better cardiovascular health.
  • Strengthened Immune System: Gratitude has been linked to a stronger immune system. When you’re in a positive state of mind, your body may produce more antibodies and immune cells, making you more resistant to illness.
  • Better Sleep: Practicing gratitude can lead to improved sleep quality. People who regularly focus on positive thoughts and express gratitude often report better and longer sleep, which is essential for overall health and well-being.
  • Reduced Stress: Gratitude helps reduce the body’s stress response. It encourages relaxation and can lead to decreased levels of the stress hormone cortisol. Lower stress levels are associated with better physical health.
  • Pain Management: Gratitude has been shown to have a positive impact on pain perception and management. Grateful individuals may experience reduced pain sensitivity and better pain tolerance.
  • Enhanced Mental Health: While not a direct physical health benefit, improved mental health through gratitude can have a significant impact on physical well-being. Reduced symptoms of depression and anxiety are associated with better overall physical health.
  • Increased Longevity: Some studies suggest that people who maintain a positive outlook and practice gratitude tend to live longer. This may be due to the overall health benefits associated with positive emotions.
  • Reduced Inflammation: Chronic inflammation is linked to various health issues, including heart disease, diabetes, and autoimmune disorders. Gratitude may help reduce inflammation in the body, promoting better overall health.
  • Better Pain Tolerance: Gratitude has been shown to increase pain tolerance in some studies. This can be particularly beneficial for individuals dealing with chronic pain conditions.
  • Healthier Lifestyle Choices: Grateful individuals often engage in healthier lifestyle choices. They are more likely to exercise, eat a balanced diet, and avoid unhealthy behaviors like smoking or excessive drinking.

This suggests that practicing gratitude can have a direct impact on our physical health, helping us lead longer and healthier lives.

Social Connections:

Gratitude is a powerful tool for strengthening social bonds. When we express gratitude towards others, it not only enhances our own well-being but also deepens our relationships. People appreciate being acknowledged and thanked for their efforts, and this can lead to increased trust, empathy, and a stronger sense of community.

Many a time, we take our dearest and nearest for granted, not acknowledging their services, efforts, and kindness. We think it’s their duty and therefore, we don’t give thanks and appreciation for their work. However, it really doesn’t take much from us to give thanks to our loved ones, yet it goes a long way in boosting their motivation and giving them the feeling that their work is noticed and appreciated. This gives warmth to our relationships and brings joy to everyone’s heart. 

Appreciation in the workplace plays a significant role in improving employee performance and overall job satisfaction. When employees feel valued and appreciated for their contributions, it can have a positive impact in several ways:

  • Increased Motivation: When employees receive recognition and appreciation for their hard work and achievements, they are more motivated to continue putting in effort and performing at their best. Knowing that their contributions are noticed and valued gives them a sense of purpose and motivation.
  • Boosted Morale: Appreciation contributes to a positive work environment where employees feel supported and respected. This, in turn, boosts morale and creates a sense of camaraderie among colleagues. When employees enjoy their work environment, they are more likely to be engaged and perform well.
  • Enhanced Job Satisfaction: Feeling appreciated is closely tied to job satisfaction. When employees are satisfied with their jobs, they are more likely to be productive and committed to their work. This can lead to lower turnover rates, as satisfied employees are less likely to seek new job opportunities.
  • Improved Employee Well-Being: Workplace appreciation isn’t limited to recognizing performance; it also involves showing concern for employees’ well-being. When employers and colleagues care about each other’s well-being, it can reduce stress and contribute to a healthier and happier work environment. Healthy and happy employees are more likely to perform well.
  • Increased Loyalty: Employees who feel appreciated are often more loyal to their organizations. They are less likely to leave for other job opportunities and more likely to contribute to the long-term success of the company.
  • Enhanced Team Collaboration: Appreciation can foster a sense of teamwork and collaboration. When individuals feel valued, they are more willing to collaborate with their colleagues and share their knowledge and skills, which can lead to better team performance.
  • Higher Productivity: Appreciated employees tend to be more productive. They are driven to excel and contribute positively to the company’s goals and objectives. This, in turn, can lead to improved overall performance for the organization.
  • Innovation and Creativity: When employees feel appreciated and supported, they are more likely to take risks and think creatively. This can lead to innovative solutions and ideas that benefit the organization.
  • Positive Company Culture: Workplace appreciation contributes to a positive company culture, which can be attractive to potential employees. A positive reputation for valuing employees can help with recruitment and retention efforts.

To foster appreciation in the workplace, employers and colleagues can use various strategies, including regular feedback and recognition programs, acknowledging accomplishments in team meetings, providing opportunities for professional growth and development, and simply expressing gratitude for a job well done. Building a culture of appreciation can have a profound impact on individual and organizational performance.

Cultivating Gratitude:

Now that we understand the science behind gratitude, how can we incorporate it into our lives? There are many practical ways to cultivate gratitude, from keeping a daily gratitude journal to expressing thanks to loved ones. The key is to make gratitude a habit, to regularly take time to reflect on the positive aspects of life and to share those feelings with others.

Some simple exercises I always give my clients are:

  • Upon arising each morning, give thanks for waking up, for having a new day filled with many opportunities for learning and growth 
  • You can write in your gratitude journal as you are having your morning coffee 
  • Take a daily walk and set your mind to appreciate the beauty of the nature that surrounds you 
  • Create three mini celebrations during each day; it can be as simple as taking a deep refreshing breath and saying thank you after the exhale. Or, making your favorite tea in the afternoon and while having it immerse yourself in its warmth, flavor, and fragrance and be thankful for that very moment
  • And finally at bedtime count at least three things that you are grateful for as you close your day 

These simple daily practices are available to anyone however busy they may be and under all physical, mental, and emotional conditions. If we just set our mind to do these practices consistently, we can turn gratefulness into a habit and develop an attitude of gratitude in just a few of weeks. 


Gratitude is more than just a polite gesture; it’s a scientifically proven path to greater happiness, improved health, and stronger relationships. By understanding the science behind gratitude and incorporating it into our daily lives, we can harness its transformative power and enjoy the many benefits it has to offer. So, let us take a moment each day to appreciate the beauty and goodness that surrounds us, for in doing so, we can truly transform our minds and bodies for the better.

Action plan:

Try one or more gratitude practices suggested here or create your own. If you come up with your own gratitude practice write to us and let us know about your gratitude practice. 


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